By aliceboyes

100 Fun Things to Do When You're Bored or Depressed

As problems gets bigger, often the rest of life seems to shrink. When people have a lot of stress – their time, energy, and thoughts often get consumed by those problems. As people spend more time and energy thinking about their problems, they spend less time and energy pursuing their interests. What are your unique...

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Is This Relationship Right? 10 Relationship Questions to Help You Decide "Should I Stay or Should I Go?"

These are just suggested questions based on research about relationship quality. Matters of the heart are complicated. 1. When we are argue, do either of us express contempt? Contempt is basically the biggest predictor of divorce for married couples. The definition of contempt (in relationships science) is that goes beyond other forms of criticism. It...

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10 Fascinating Questions About You To Ask Your Mom (For Adults)

Forward the link for this post to your Mom and ask her to answer. People tend to have more positive and stable close relationships when they know detailed answers to the kinds of questions below. 1. Tell me the story of my delivery? What time of day was I born etc? 2. Do you remember...

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11 Dating Questions to Ask Before You Commit

1. Do you ever have a hard time accepting No when you want something? Rationale: Is s/he entitled, disrespectful or needy? 2. If you weren’t doing the job you’re doing now, what would you like to do? Rationale: Does s/he have any big plans for dramatic life changes you don’t know about? 3. Do you...

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10 Effortless Stress Relief Techniques

Effortless stress relief techniques for busy people. 1. Accept offers of help. For example, if you’re catering a big event, ask your children to help you. Recruit help if necessary. 2. Treat yourself like you’d treat your best friend. If you’re harassed and harangued, or having self-critical or self-doubt thoughts, recognize that you’re having a...

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10 Relationship Questions to Better Understand Your Partner

These relationship questions will help you better understand – why they do what they do – why they get angry – how to talk to them – how to please them 1. When you get home from work and your willpower has been drained by making decisions all day, what do you most need? (or...

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Low Self Esteem Test – Take the Rosenberg Low Self Esteem Test Free Online

The low self esteem test that is most widely used by researchers is the Rosenberg Low Self Esteem Test. Take Rosenberg Self Esteem Inventory free. The low self esteem test will auto score for you. If you score 15-25 this suggests you are in the normal self esteem range. If you score below 15, this...

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Positive Body Image

Practical tips for Positive Body ImageI was interviewed for Next Magazine about Positive Body Image, and these are my positive body image tips. The following positive body image tips come from a therapy called Cognitive Behavioral Therapy CBT. Positive Body Image Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) – How to feel better about yourself and improve your...

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Socially Awkward Situations – The Psychology of Avoiding Awkwardness

Sometimes when people use avoidant coping it’s for the purposes of avoiding heavy duty emotions, however it’s also very common for people to use avoidant coping to avoid milder emotions like awkwardness. I very frequently see people choosing not to enact their personal values to avoid feeling temporarily awkward. The DIY Psychological Challenge for this...

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30 Ideas for Simple 30-Day Projects

This is a new item I’m selling. Click here to view some feedback I got from a purchaser (linked to with their permission). It’s a pdf – 30 Ideas for Simple 30-Day Projects. You can pay below using Visa or Mastercard. You’ll be shown the price in your own currency. Buy now for 4.99 USD...

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