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Is Anyone Else Feeling Lethargic since Daylight Savings Time ended?

A week after Daylight Savings Time ended I’m still feeling lethargic. Here’s some advice for anyone who’s feeling the same. (For international readers who are confused, in New Zealand we just entered fall and turned our clocks back last week so all of a sudden its dark at 6pm when only a few weeks ago [...]

Why People Who Suffer From Anxiety Sometimes Don't Like Exercise (and an Awesome Example of How to Achieve an Exercise Goal)

Exercise is extremely helpful for reducing anxiety (its an important component of treatment for anxiety and depression). People who are anxious sometimes avoid vigorous exercise because the physical sensations of exertion (consciously or unconsciously) remind them of anxiety. e.g. – increased heart rate – awareness of breathing – feeling hot and sweating – tight chest [...]

Three Magazines I'm in this Month (and some comments about Rodney Hide and confidence and the psychology of personal change)

This month I’m in 3 magazines. For the current edition of Mindfood, I wrote an article about expressing thanks. My editor at the Mindfood requested the topic because its their end of year/holidays edition. Back in August I was one of the judges at a New Zealand fitness industry awards event called the Fitness Life [...]